Focus On The Solution

In life we have so many problems, problems that gives us anxiety. It gives thoughts that we will never do things like this or that. It gives us negative perspective in life. But this is what I remember if you have problem.

Focus on the solution not on the problem. :) Stay positive and Thank God for the upcoming blessing. God bless.

As we grow older

As we grow older I realized that things get more serious. Life gets shorter, nights go longer, relationships are becoming more serious, you become capable of your own life.

When I was younger, I wasn't expecting of thinking of this things. Thinking of finishing my studies because of the person I love the most, to make her future with me secured. Because when I was younger, i just entered relationships, that's all. Yes, we have commitment but no commitment for what person we are going to be in the future, not thinking of something more serious, just be with each other. But now, thinking of not being together so much to have a job and make money for our lives.

How I wish I was just this kid who has no commitment in life, just need to learn and appreciate. Love your youth and do what you think you love so that you won't end up boring when get old enough to be serious.

Love instead of Judge

A wise man once told me, Don't judge the book by it's cover and his name is Anonymous! Just kidding, well we all tend to grow up knowing that proverb but(i say "but") we tend to judge people without knowing them first. We tend to judge sometimes by what we can see in them. We tend to judge even though we doesn't know their story. We look at their outward appearance instead of what's inside.

If their poor their bad and you don't have respect for them, if their rich they are so kind ang you almost kiss their feet trying to praise them. If they are uneducated you end up at the idea that they are not that good in moral but sometimes uneducated people are more kind and down-to-earth people than educated ones. I'm not saying all, i said sometimes.

I just want to tell you guys that instead of judging and jumping onto conclusions on what you are thinking on other people, please grab the chance to know them first. Know their story and know their background, because the key to a persons heart is letting them tell who they are. Maybe you misunderstood them because they want better things or they are just that because of family background.

And to conclude this to you guys, Love more and judge less. Know them before tell something about them. Know their stories and Love them for who they are, not for what you want them to be. The way God loves us, even though we are sinner God loves us for who we are. He doesn't hate us but He hates our sin. He loves you and doesn't judge. God bless everyone!

Overthinking Sucks!

I really hate overthinking, I can't help it. You know what the other people is doing but you can't stop thinking, you want it to be clear, you want to know everything. Especially when you are courting someone or in a relationship. Sometimes  you think maybe she/ he doesn't like you anymore or you offended because of certain action. 

Sometimes when they sleep and forget to turn of their messenger and you see their online status you can't help but thinking maybe she/he doesn't want to talk to you anymore,or He/she's talking with some other person.

Sometimes you think that the person you are trying to impress would not like you because you are overthinking that he/she might find you boring. Or unattractive because you're thinking too much!

Stop overthinking! It spoils your happiness, You're making problems that is not really existing. You poison your mind and it hurts, so stop it. It's not healthy for you and for the person you are trying to impress.

Instead of overthinking maybe watched movie, listen to musics, or play video games. Read books also! Choose to be happy don't overthink!

Lesson Learned

Well recently I just watched a videoblog made by a media man (ON FACEBOOK) also known as BoyLandi(Mr. Drew Olivar) showing the right ways or the right manners when somebody is confronting you in public. I like his sense when he told that you need to think first of what you are going to do if somebody is confronting you(in public), well it makes you angry right? but think first, you don't know also what the other guy is capable of. And He also told that Doesn't mean your not fighting back does mean you're a coward or weak it just shows how educated you are as a person. Shout outs to this fellow Filipino Man! :)
-PS I think He likes Man. :P
here's the video guys

I'm back in business!

Now we're back in business, sometimes I look in the mirror thinking what's wrong, what mistakes I have done, and as God answers I lack of consistency so I decided to make a shirt design of it so every time i see it I will feel motivated be consistent on what I'm doing and I decided to sell this design to you Guys God bless!

Love as an Inspiration

First this past few weeks, I'm doing nothing. as in nothing. I'm doing boring life, surfing the internet, playing Nba2k, sleeping late because of my laptop. My life become so boring this past few months. I'm not studying, unemployed because I'm just 19. I'm a church worker so technically I work for church. As a volunteer. I teach kids every saturday, well it's better if I say "we" because I have a partner who is so Beautiful, mesmerizing, and time stopper ( Because whenever I see her, it's like heaven, like in the movies when the girl moves in slow motion) I think I love her, no! I know I love her.

So now I decided to tell her how much I love her, last april 28. I was so nervous and shy thinking that what if she rejects me or doesn't want me, but I think if I didn't say this feelings to her I already blew my chance, but if I said it to her and I got rejected it's fine, at least I tried. So to make the long thinking story shorter I decided to tell her. So I tell her when we were at their house, at first she felt awkward but now it's so cool that we are so close and I can tell her if I'm jealous with some other Guy. Right now, we're just waiting for the time that I'm going to graduate college. She inspires me to finish my studies.

Just to tell you guys, you just need to try, there's no dying in trying, just try. If you don't try you are already beaten, you lost. But if you try well, you can win and there's no lost, just lesson. I hope my love story inspire you. I will keep you updated on what's going on. And last thought if you feel nothing is happening in your life, God will use people to inspire you. :)

I love her so much! :)